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Polyamory and its ‘Others’: Contesting the Terms of Non-Monogamy

2006/11/13 by Christian Klesse · 3 citations
Social Sciences · Psychology · Arts and Humanities · #Marriage and Sexual Relationships #Forgiveness and Related Behaviors #Mormonism, Religion, and History

paper · doi:10.1177/1363460706069986

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Abstract

Drawing on qualitative in-depth interviews with bisexual-identified practitioners of polyamory in the UK, this article shows that love, intimacy and friendship are salient themes in polyamory discourses. An exploration of the question of how respondents define polyamory with regard to different ‘styles of non-monogamy’ reveals that the boundaries of polyamory are contested within the movement that has formed around this concept. The prevalent definition of polyamory as ‘responsible non-monogamy’ usually goes hand in hand with a rejection of more sex- or pleasure-centred forms of non-monogamy, such as ‘casual sex’, ‘swinging’, or ‘promiscuity’. The author argues that the salience of the relational ideologies of love and intimacy hampers the potential of polyamory to ground a truly pluralistic sexual ethics.

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