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2021/10/31 by Jay Szpilka, Szpilka, Jan 'Jay'
Psychology · Social Sciences · #LGBTQ Health, Identity, and Policy #Sex work and related issues #Sexuality, Behavior, and Technology

paper · doi:10.13131/2611-657x.whatever.v5i1.168

openalex publication_date 2021/10/31 · openalex created_date 2025/10/10 · openalex updated_date 2026/07/01

Abstract

This article is aimed at investigating the way toys are used within BDSM practices. “Toys”, as a term, encompasses a wide variety of objects such as gags, cuffs, or whips which form the material bedrock for BDSM sexualities. At the same time, the presence of so many objects within sexual practices is a cause of anxiety, evident even in specialist scholarship on kink. Drawing on examples from my fieldwork among Polish BDSM practitioners, I will be attempting to provide a different perspective on the role of toys in kink, one that does not replicate the anxieties about fetishism and commodification, while at the same time attending to the queer use of everyday objects that is so common within the world of BDSM.

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